The trick is that I completely accepted that it is fine to try and fail, not to be perfect, to create something and have people judge you. I consider that a positive thing.
Until you try and fail, you’ll never see where your lack of understanding is. The best way to learn something is to study, try, practice, make mistakes, then learn some more.
This pillow was done and undone several times and finally I made it! What is your experience?